I'm going to write one post where I bitch about my roommates and then I'm going to get over it.
Not knowing anyone from Chapman in the first place, I decided to take a chance with Athena's housing and see who I'd end up with. I met Chelsea that way when I first started college, and she's pretty legitimate (love you) so it seemed like a valid way to go.
My three roommates are from the East Coast. Lauren and Mikaela are from the Boston area of Massachusetts (Norwell, precisely) and Julie is from New Hampshire. Lauren and Mikaela grew up and went to high school together and Julie is Lauren's best friend from college. They attend Endicott for Elementary Education while Mikaela attends University of Massachusetts for Communications.
To preface:
It's incredible to study abroad. It's got to be that much more amazing to have your two closest friends right there with you. My objective in leaving my friends, family and familiar university (and what I think most people's objective must be in studying abroad) is to expand my horizons and become a more open, understanding global citizen. I want to travel to as many different places as I can and see what other people's lives are like. I plan to see all my favorite pieces of art in person. I want to know the history of national monuments, I'm curious about local cuisines. Deciphering a foreign city's subway/metro system is exhilarating, and putting the seemingly mundane (or even unknown) day-to-day skills I had developed in America to use in a completely unfamiliar place is incredible.
I never knew I could navigate so well or had such a keen sense of direction. I didn't know any French but thanks to a long weekend in Paris, I feel like I can go back and get around pretty comfortably. (My Italian is strangely slower in making any sort of useful headway.)
But these girls are here to "meet [their] future husbands" and "make a list of all the countries [they] hook up with."
They spend a serious amount of their day planning out what they're going to eat and when they actually consume, they can't stop talking about how fat they are/are becoming/will be when they return home. Conversation which is immediately followed by how Italian food is disgusting because it's all carbohydrates and lengthy discussion about what American foods they can't live without any longer. Then they'll drink four boxes of €0.69 white wine and go out clubbing until 4:00am.
They've each brought men home, though they squeal about how "disgusting" they find Italians. (To really cinch this, they guys that they hang out/hook up with are not, in fact, Italian. They're very clearly Armenian. [Which is great, whatever, just don't tell people you're something you're not in order to get laid.] There are a lot of men that will tell American students that they're Italian, the police force actually warned the girls at the university about this.)
I've gone out with them twice. At the clubs, they see girls getting free drinks from the bartenders and will whine, "I'm prettier than her, why am I not getting drinks for free?" Their goal for the evening is to not pay for a drink, whether they're given freely from the bar or bought for them by creepers.
Writing all this out just seems petty, and honestly it is, but it's really been stressing me out. I'll give it one more example and then I'm going to bed.
I went to Paris, France with all of the roommates last weekend. I was thrilled to go and started doing a little bit of research about the things I wanted to go see and do. I ended up finding a great deal for a hotel, a quadruple bedroom for three nights that would only cost each of us €59.40. (This was an amazing deal because hostels can run from €15-30 a night.) The room was impeccable. It was a corner with a perfect balcony, great view, comfortable single beds, a TV, and a marble bathroom. It was fucking awesome. These stupid girls (mostly Julie, as she really is the downer of the group) were just not having it. Julie can always, always find something to complain about. I kindly invited her to find a personal marble bathroom in any hostel across Europe and promptly made plans to head to Disneyland Paris the next day, by myself.
I had been Facebook messaging with Chelsea and Laura, who have both studied in France, for some general suggestions of things to do and any key phrases that might help me out with the language barrier. I was very obviously the only person who had even considered the slight dilemma of not speaking the local language, and Laura's "Je suis désolé, je ne parle pas français, parlez-vous anglais?" (I'm sorry, I don't speak French, do you speak English?) as well as Chelsea's helpful phrases saved us (and kept me from looking like less of an American douchebag) on sereral counts.